What Does Donald the Great Big Tickling Shark Buy At The Pet Store?
This morning I suggested to Donald that we should go to the pet store to get some more aquatic plants for our fish tank. He agreed this was a good idea and grabbed his wallet and pretend car keys. We got to the store and picked out a couple of plants to provide some cover for our shyer fish. And then we reached another milestone in childraising. My son declared he had enough money to buy himself a pet.
Now, I fully expected any child of mine to ask for a pet of his own sooner or later, but I didn't expect it to happen this soon, and I didn't foresee the offer of financial responsibility, either. Unsure as to how best to proceed, I asked Liam what kind of pet he wanted to purchase.
"I want to buy one of those teeny-tiny goldfish over there, Mommy!"
Liam pointed to a tank of feeder goldfish - you know, the kind that become dinner for other, bigger pets, and are sold for about a dime apiece. My heart began to melt, and I would have agreed immediately, but I just had to find out how he was planning to pay for the fish. He started rooting around in his wallet, opening various zippers and pulling out several pretend credit cards. Then he clearly was struck by inspiration and opened the center compartment to reveal two quarters- "Look, Mommy! Actually, I have money! I have coins! Can I pay with coins and not a toy credit card?"
I looked at the price of the goldfish and told him he could buy three goldfish with his two quarters. I have never seen such happiness - he wanted to buy one fish, and ended up able to buy three. He carefully told the sales associate exactly which fish he wanted. He paid for his fish, we brought them home, and he put them in our tank with only a little help from me.
My son may exist primarily in he dreamy world of imagination that 3-year-olds are known for, but today I got a glimpse of things to come - independence, self-assurance, and admirable problem-solving ability. I just hope I get to spend a bit more time with Donald the Great Big Shark Who Tickles People before he decides to morph into a mature boy.
Now, I fully expected any child of mine to ask for a pet of his own sooner or later, but I didn't expect it to happen this soon, and I didn't foresee the offer of financial responsibility, either. Unsure as to how best to proceed, I asked Liam what kind of pet he wanted to purchase.
"I want to buy one of those teeny-tiny goldfish over there, Mommy!"
Liam pointed to a tank of feeder goldfish - you know, the kind that become dinner for other, bigger pets, and are sold for about a dime apiece. My heart began to melt, and I would have agreed immediately, but I just had to find out how he was planning to pay for the fish. He started rooting around in his wallet, opening various zippers and pulling out several pretend credit cards. Then he clearly was struck by inspiration and opened the center compartment to reveal two quarters- "Look, Mommy! Actually, I have money! I have coins! Can I pay with coins and not a toy credit card?"
I looked at the price of the goldfish and told him he could buy three goldfish with his two quarters. I have never seen such happiness - he wanted to buy one fish, and ended up able to buy three. He carefully told the sales associate exactly which fish he wanted. He paid for his fish, we brought them home, and he put them in our tank with only a little help from me.
My son may exist primarily in he dreamy world of imagination that 3-year-olds are known for, but today I got a glimpse of things to come - independence, self-assurance, and admirable problem-solving ability. I just hope I get to spend a bit more time with Donald the Great Big Shark Who Tickles People before he decides to morph into a mature boy.
Labels: milestones, pets
10 Comments:
How sweet! It's not often you get much more than you wish for.
By Suzanne, at Friday, February 09, 2007 9:24:00 PM
This made me tear up. What a big boy, and what a wonderful mommy. May the fish live a long and prosperous life.
By chichimama, at Friday, February 09, 2007 10:14:00 PM
that is such a precious, touching story, definitely one to save for his baby book or something similar.
what did he name his new fish?
By Anonymous, at Saturday, February 10, 2007 11:46:00 PM
that's cool.
By Jeni, at Sunday, February 11, 2007 4:05:00 PM
That is so sweet. What a wonderful little boy you have.
By Anonymous, at Monday, February 12, 2007 6:50:00 AM
How sweet. :)
By Laura, at Monday, February 12, 2007 9:26:00 AM
I'm just echoing the above comments, but this really IS so sweet! There is no better word for it. :)
By Jennifer, at Monday, February 12, 2007 11:55:00 PM
Oh my. My heart is just melting into a puddle on the floor. How sweet is Liam???? Reading this made my day
By Dana, at Tuesday, February 13, 2007 1:29:00 PM
Aw, thanks, guys :) He really is a sweet kid!
And for the record, the fish are named Gold, Goldie, and Orangey. Darned if I know which one is which but rest assured Donald does!
By Liesl, at Tuesday, February 13, 2007 9:00:00 PM
Ugh - blogger ate my comment! Liam is just too sweet! I love that he wanted to use his own money to buy his fish!
By Steph, at Wednesday, February 14, 2007 1:27:00 PM
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